skill-eng-manager-1on1

name	skill-eng-manager-1on1
version	0.1.0
description	Three engineering-manager flows — prep a 1:1 from prior context, decompose a sprint review, or walk a blameless postmortem.
neurotypes	[]
status	stable
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profile_dependencies	["preferences.output_format","preferences.max_chunk_size"]
license	AGPL-3.0-or-later
authors	["NeuroDock contributors"]

skill-eng-manager-1on1

Three flows an engineering manager (or tech lead, or staff+ IC with mentees) actually does: prep a recurring 1:1 from the last few conversations, decompose unstructured sprint-review notes into atomic items grouped by owner, walk a blameless postmortem on an incident without ever pointing at a person. The trigger phrases are unambiguous on purpose — they will not steal activation from adhd-daily-planner or any general planning skill.

This is not a performance-management tool. It does not score reports, rank them, summarise their tone, or feed anything into a performance cycle. It is a working tool for the person running the meeting.

When to activate

Activate when the user's message contains one of the trigger phrases verbatim. The trigger phrase determines which of the three flows runs:

• prep my 1:1 with <name> / prep my one-on-one with <name> / prep my 1-on-1 with <name> / 1:1 prep for <name> → Flow A: 1:1 prep.
• decompose this sprint review / decompose this retro / decompose these sprint notes → Flow B: sprint-review decomposition.
• blameless postmortem on <incident> / blameless post-mortem on <incident> / walk a postmortem on <incident> → Flow C: postmortem.

Do not activate on partial matches ("can we 1:1 sometime"), past tense ("the postmortem went well"), or third-person reports about meetings the user is not running. Do not activate if a separate skill — for example audhd-context-recovery or adhd-daily-planner — is already running its flow in this turn; let the more general skill finish.

Flow A — 1:1 prep

The user says some variant of prep my 1:1 with Sarah. Goal: a one-page brief built from what the graph remembers about Sarah and any open threads tagged to her.

1. Parse the name. Everything after with (or after for for the 1:1 prep for variant) is the person's name. Trim. Treat the parsed string verbatim — do not normalise capitalisation, do not expand nicknames.

2. Recall the entity (only if mcp-cognitive-graph is available; otherwise skip to step 6 with the empty-graph fallback). Call recall_entity({ "name_or_alias": "<parsed name>" }).

3. Resolution check. If resolution.method is alias, fuzzy, or embedding, surface the resolved entity name and the resolution score before continuing. Ask one question: I read "<parsed name>" as the entity "<resolved>" (<method> match, score <score>). Continue? Wait for confirmation. Do not assume.

4. If entity is null, say so plainly: No entity in the graph matches "<parsed name>". I can still help you prep — what's on your mind for this conversation? Stop and wait for the user.

5. Compose the brief from recall_entity's returned data. Read three things:

   • entity.last_interaction_at (or the most recent facts[].recorded_at if the entity lacks a last_interaction_at field) — this is the "last conversation" timestamp.
   • facts[] filtered to predicates mentioned_in, decided_in, blocked_by — these become "open topics".
   • neighbours[] — these are the projects and decisions Sarah is connected to.

6. Render the brief. See "Output format — Flow A" below.

7. Stop. Do not propose meeting structure, agenda items the user did not ask for, or "how do you usually start your 1:1s". The brief is the deliverable.

Flow B — sprint-review decomposition

The user says decompose this sprint review (or one of the equivalent triggers) and either pastes notes directly, or says they will paste them.

1. Ask for the notes only if they have not been provided in the same turn. One sentence: Paste the notes. I'll group atomic action items by owner. Wait. Do not editorialise.

2. Once notes are in hand, call decompose({ "goal": "<the pasted notes, verbatim>", "time_budget": "PT45M" }). The 45-minute time budget is the default — it maps to roughly one working block. If the notes themselves state a different budget (e.g. "we have a week for this"), parse that and pass it as ISO 8601 (e.g. P5D). The task-fractionator interprets P5D as five working blocks of 4h, not 120h calendar — see ADR 0003 §3.

3. Three outcomes from decompose:

   • Success — a list of atomic tasks, each with at least one acceptance criterion. Continue to step 4.
   • BUDGET_INFEASIBLE — surface the error message as one line: The notes describe more work than fits in the time budget. Try a longer budget, or break the review into two passes. Stop.
   • DECOMPOSITION_UNAVAILABLE or any other error — surface the error code on one line. Stop.

4. Group tasks by owner. Owners are extracted from the tags returned by decompose (the task-fractionator tags atomic tasks with role/owner hints when the source text contains them). If a task has no owner tag, group it under Unassigned.

5. Render the grouped action items. See "Output format — Flow B" below.

6. Stop. Do not propose follow-up rituals ("schedule the retro retro"), do not ask "shall I file these as tickets". The grouped list is the deliverable.

Flow C — blameless postmortem

The user says blameless postmortem on <incident>. This flow walks 5 Whys plus a small system-factors checklist. It MUST NEVER name a person as the cause and MUST NEVER use blaming language ("X should have", "Y failed to", "Z dropped the ball").

1. Anchor the incident. Restate what the user named, verbatim, in one sentence: Walking a blameless postmortem on: <incident as stated>. I'll ask five Whys, then map system factors. We will not name a person as cause.

2. Five Whys, one at a time. Ask the user the first Why. Wait. After their answer, ask the next Why grounded in their answer. Each Why is a single sentence ending with a question mark. Each Why targets a system, a process, a tool, or a condition — never a person.

   Examples of acceptable Why phrasings:

   • Why did the system enter that state?
   • Why was that condition possible in the first place?
   • Why did the alerting/runbook/deployment process allow it?

   Banned Why phrasings (these are blaming dressed up as Whys):

   • Why didn't <name> notice? — restate as Why did the alerting not surface it?
   • Why did <name> push that change? — restate as Why did the change-gate allow it through?
   • Why didn't anyone catch this? — restate as Why did the review process not flag it?

   If the user's own answer names a person, accept the answer but rephrase the next Why to target the system around that person, not the person.

3. After five Whys (or sooner if the chain has terminated in a system root cause), list system factors. Ask one short question: Which of these system factors were in play? (You can name more than one.) Then list six candidates:

   • Documentation gap — runbook missing, stale, or wrong.
   • Observability gap — the system did not surface the problem in time.
   • Change-gate gap — the deploy/review/test process let the issue through.
   • Capacity gap — the team was stretched; the work could not get the attention it needed.
   • Tool gap — the available tools made the safe path harder than the unsafe path.
   • Context gap — the person doing the work did not have the information they would have needed (and this is the system's job to fix, not theirs).

4. Compose the postmortem skeleton. See "Output format — Flow C" below.

5. Optionally record. If mcp-cognitive-graph is available AND the user explicitly opts in (record this in the graph?), call record_fact once per identified system factor with predicate: "tagged" and object.literal: "<factor-key>", subject scoped to a postmortem entity named after the incident. Skip silently if the user does not opt in.

6. Stop. Do not propose remediation actions in this flow — that is a follow-up conversation. The skeleton is the deliverable.

Output format

Flow A — 1:1 prep

Strict "Answer First". First sentence ≤ 100 characters.

1:1 prep — <person name>. Last interaction: <relative timestamp, e.g. "8 days ago, 2026-05-12">.

### Open topics
- <fact 1, one line, with date>
- <fact 2, one line, with date>
- <fact 3, one line, with date>

### Recent context
- <neighbour 1: project or decision name> (<relationship>)
- <neighbour 2: project or decision name> (<relationship>)

Suggested opener: "<one short, concrete opener drawn from the most recent open topic>."
This brief is for you, not for sharing. It is not a performance summary.

Rules:

• Maximum three bullets per section. If fewer than three open topics exist, list what you have — do not invent.
• Confidence is not surfaced in this flow (a 1:1 brief is for the human running the meeting; pretending the graph is more certain than it is would mislead).
• The "not a performance summary" line is mandatory.

Empty-graph fallback (used when mcp-cognitive-graph is unavailable or the entity is null):

1:1 prep — <person name>. No prior context in the graph.

I can still help. What's on your mind for this conversation? If you'd like me to capture anything for next time, say "record this" once we're done.

Flow B — sprint-review decomposition

Sprint-review decomposition — <N> atomic items, <M> owners.

### <Owner name>
- <task title> (<estimated_minutes> min)
  Acceptance: <first acceptance criterion>
- <task title> (<estimated_minutes> min)
  Acceptance: <first acceptance criterion>

### <Owner name>
- ...

### Unassigned
- <task title> (<estimated_minutes> min)
  Acceptance: <first acceptance criterion>

These items are decomposed from your notes. I did not invent owners or estimates.

Rules:

• Owners appear in the order the first task for each owner appears in the decomposition.
• Estimates are surfaced verbatim from the decompose result — do not round or restate.
• The closing line is mandatory; it grounds the user that the decomposition is constrained to what their notes said.

Flow C — blameless postmortem

Postmortem skeleton — <incident as stated>

### Why chain
1. Why? <user's answer>
2. Why? <user's answer>
3. Why? <user's answer>
4. Why? <user's answer>
5. Why? <user's answer (or "chain terminated earlier at a system root cause")>

### System factors in play
- <factor 1>
- <factor 2>
- <factor 3>

### What this postmortem does NOT contain
- A person named as cause.
- A remediation action list (that is a follow-up conversation).
- A judgement about whether the incident was avoidable.

The "does NOT contain" block is mandatory. It is the user's reminder, when they share the skeleton, of what is and is not in scope.

Distress signal handling

If the user's invoking message contains phrases like I'm furious, someone needs to be held accountable, this is on <name>, the skill MUST acknowledge the feeling but MUST NOT shift the flow toward naming a person. One sentence: Understood. The postmortem still won't name a person — that's the point of it being blameless. We can route accountability conversations separately if you want. Then continue with Flow C as defined.

Do not

• Do not score, rank, or rate any person mentioned in any flow.
• Do not output the words "underperforming", "should have known", "let the team down", "needs to step up", or any equivalent.
• Do not use "synergy", "rockstar", "10x", "ninja", "growth mindset", "stretch goal", or any other middle-management-speak.
• Do not propose performance-management actions (PIPs, escalations, role changes). This skill is for the work, not for HR.
• Do not invent open topics in Flow A. If the graph has no facts on the entity, say so.
• Do not paraphrase facts returned by recall_entity — quote the literal text.
• Do not call decompose in Flow A or Flow C. It is a Flow B tool.
• Do not call record_fact without explicit user opt-in. The cognitive graph is the user's notebook, not the skill's logbook.
• Do not activate inside another skill's flow. Let it finish first.
• Do not exceed three bullets per section in Flow A.

What this skill is not

• Not a performance-review prep tool.
• Not a coaching framework.
• Not a sprint-planning tool (it decomposes a review, not a roadmap).
• Not a root-cause analysis tool for non-incident work.
• Not a clinical tool. The skill makes no claims about the user's or their reports' neurotypes.

Examples

See tests/:

• tests/01-prep-1on1.md — Flow A with two mocked facts in the graph.
• tests/02-decompose-sprint-review.md — Flow B with pasted notes and a 45-minute budget.
• tests/03-blameless-postmortem.md — Flow C walking 5 Whys without ever naming a person.