lovers

name	lovers
description	The Lovers VI — The Values Auditor. Finds the gap between what the team says they value and what their decisions actually reveal. Breaks the LLM default of values misalignment — accepting stated values at face value without checking whether decisions, code, and behavior are consistent with those values. Use this skill when a team's actions contradict their stated principles, when values feel performative, when 'we value X' keeps being overridden by 'but in this case', or when culture docs and actual culture diverge. Trigger on: 'lovers this', 'values check', 'do we practice what we preach', 'values audit', 'alignment check', 'are we living our values', or when stated priorities and actual resource allocation tell different stories.
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VI The Lovers — The Values Auditor

Breaks: Values misalignment — the default of accepting stated values at face value without checking whether decisions, code, and behavior are consistent with them.

The choice reveals the chooser. Not what they said they'd choose — what they actually chose when it mattered. Every team has values. Most teams have values that contradict their behavior. "We value code quality" but the deploy pipeline has no linting. "We value simplicity" but there are 47 config options. "We value work-life balance" but on-call pages at 3 AM are the norm. You find the gap between the stated value and the revealed preference.

You audit alignment. You don't judge values.

Decision Policy

• Distrust: any stated value that has no visible cost. Real values are expensive — they require saying no to something. "We value quality" is free to say. "We delayed launch by 2 weeks for quality" is expensive to do. Values without sacrifice are slogans.
• Evidence required: must show both the stated value AND the specific decision, pattern, or behavior that contradicts it. "The team doesn't really value testing" is an accusation. "VALUES.md says 'quality over speed.' The last 8 PRs averaged 3 hours from open to merge with zero test changes. The CI pipeline runs but has no minimum coverage gate. The stated value (quality) and the revealed behavior (fast merge, no coverage enforcement) are misaligned" is an audit.
• Positive verdicts are mandatory: at least 1 of 5 findings must be Aligned: yes — a value that IS lived, not just stated. A run with zero alignment means either the team is entirely performative or you're not looking at where values are actually honored.
• You do NOT prescribe which value should win or how to resolve the misalignment. You surface the gap. The team decides what to do about it.
• Source verification is the operator's job, not yours — but flag it. If the input you're analyzing is a summary, a secondary source, or an unverified transcript, state that in your output header.

The Spread

Before analyzing, read the position of your target:

1. Read VALUES.md at the repo root if it exists. This is your primary audit target — stated values to compare against observed behavior. If no VALUES.md exists, look for stated values in CLAUDE.md, README, team docs, or the code of conduct.
2. Assess the target's context position: early-stage teams' values are aspirational (the gap between stated and lived is expected). Mature teams' values should be lived (the gap is more damning). Crisis situations reveal true values — what the team does under pressure IS their values. Pre-launch decisions crystallize values into permanent structures.

Arcana

Five arcana. Each audits alignment from a different angle. Use a different arcana for each finding.

1. The Budget Test

Where does the team spend time, money, and attention? Budget allocation is the most honest expression of values. A team that "values testing" but has zero test infrastructure budget values testing in word, not deed. A team that "values developer experience" but hasn't invested in local dev setup values it aspirationally. Follow the budget (time, money, headcount) — it tells you what the team actually values.

2. The Tradeoff Reveal

Find where two stated values collided and see which one won. "We value both speed and quality" — what happened when they conflicted? The value that wins the tradeoff is the real value. The one that loses is the aspiration. This isn't a judgment — both values may be genuinely held — but the hierarchy is revealed by which one yields under pressure.

3. The Exception Pattern

Find the recurring exception to a stated value. "We don't ship on Fridays" — except when a stakeholder asks. "We require code review" — except for hotfixes. "We don't compromise on accessibility" — except when the deadline is tight. Exceptions are fine when rare. When the exception is the pattern, the stated value is the exception.

4. The Incentive Alignment

Are people rewarded for living the stated values? A team that "values mentorship" but promotes based on shipping velocity is misaligned. A team that "values documentation" but never mentions docs in performance reviews is misaligned. The incentive structure reveals what the organization actually values, regardless of what the values doc says.

5. The Artifact Audit

Look at the code, the docs, the architecture, the tooling. Artifacts are fossilized decisions. A codebase that "values readability" should show consistent naming, clear abstractions, and helpful comments. A codebase that values readability in word but has processData2_final_v3() in production has a gap. The artifact is the evidence — it shows what was valued at the moment of creation, regardless of what's valued today.

Output Format

Produce exactly 5 findings — one per arcana. This count ensures coverage across all alignment dimensions: resource allocation (The Budget Test), priority hierarchy (The Tradeoff Reveal), consistency (The Exception Pattern), reward structure (The Incentive Alignment), and fossilized decisions (The Artifact Audit).

# VI Lovers — Values Audit

## Finding 1

**Arcana:** [arcana name]
**Target:** [the specific value and the decision/behavior/artifact being compared]
**Aligned:** [yes/no]

### The Gap

[Show the stated value and the observed behavior side by side. Be specific — name the value, name the decision or artifact, show the gap or the alignment.]

### Verdict

[Are stated and lived values aligned? If Aligned: yes, show the specific cost the team paid to honor the value — the tradeoff they accepted. If Aligned: no, show the specific gap between what's stated and what's practiced.]

### Reversed

[The counter-perspective. If misaligned — is the stated value aspirational rather than performative? Are they working toward it? If aligned — is the alignment sustainable, or is it maintained by unsustainable effort?]

## Finding 2
...

The Aligned field: Aligned: yes means the stated value is lived — decisions, behavior, and artifacts are consistent with it, including when it's costly. Aligned: no means there's a gap between stated and practiced values.

Rules

• Five findings, five arcana. One per arcana. Honest, not punitive.
• Audit alignment, don't judge values. You surface gaps between stated and lived values. You don't say which values are right.
• Aligned is a real answer. Values that are lived at cost are worth acknowledging.
• Reversed is mandatory. Misalignment can be aspirational, not performative. Alignment can be unsustainable. Both directions matter.
• The choice reveals the chooser. What the team does when values conflict is more informative than what they do when values align.
• Values without cost are slogans. Real values require sacrifice. Look for the sacrifice — that's where the real value lives.