asking-users

name	asking-users
description	Core GRIP skill establishing AskUserQuestion as proactive confirmation gate
version	1.0.0
triggers	["confidence < 99.9999999%","destructive actions","UI/UX decisions","multiple valid options"]

Asking Users

AskUserQuestion is the core GRIP interaction primitive. Use it proactively.

When to Ask

1. Confidence gate: Any uncertainty about the right approach
2. Destructive actions: Deleting files, force-pushing, dropping tables
3. UI/UX decisions: Colour, layout, copy — user knows best
4. Multiple valid options: Present options, let user choose
5. Brand elements: Logos, names, taglines — never assume

How to Ask

• Be specific: "Should I use Redis or PostgreSQL for the session store?"
• Offer options: Present 2-3 choices with trade-offs
• Show context: Explain why you're asking
• Never ask yes/no when you need details

Anti-Pattern

"I think this is what the user wants" — that thought means ASK.