| name | examined-life |
| description | Use when someone wants to look at their life from a distance — not a specific decision, but the whole shape of it. Especially suited to life transitions, major milestones, or the feeling of running on autopilot. Triggers on: "삶을 돌아보고 싶어", "내 인생을 |
| scenarios | ["I feel like I've been on autopilot for years","I want to step back and look at the shape of my whole life","What would I regret if I kept going the way I am?","내 인생이 진짜 내 인생인지 모르겠어","자동으로 흘러가고 있는 것 같아, 점검하고 싶어","인생의 큰 그림을 스토아적으로 돌아보고 싶어"] |
| compatibility | {"optional":["think-tool","sequential-thinking"],"remote_mcp_note":"think-tool이 있으면 감사 결과에 맞는 스토아 도구를 선택하는 판단을 더 정밀하게 할 수 있습니다. sequential-thinking은 감사 → 도구 선택 → 적용 순서를 지키는 데 유용합니다. Claude 설정 → MCP Servers에서 remote SSE 엔드포인트를 추가하세요."} |
The Examined Life
When to Use / When Not to Use
Use when:
- Life transitions: career change, relationship shift, milestone birthday, loss
- Feeling of running on autopilot or living someone else's expectations
- Wanting the whole-life view, not a single-decision view
Not for:
- Single-decision analysis (use tradeoff-articulator)
- Values clarification alone (use values-explorer first)
Process
Order matters: Complete the audit before selecting Stoic tools. Jumping to reframing before examining produces philosophical bypassing.
MCP note: If sequential-thinking is available, enforce: (1) audit → (2) identify findings that need reframing → (3) select tools → (4) apply.
Part 1 — The Examined Life Audit
Autopilot Check: For each major domain (work, relationships, where you live, how you spend time):
- Did you choose this deliberately, or did you arrive by accumulation?
- If designing from scratch with what you know now, would you choose it again?
- Who would you be disappointing if you changed this?
Values-Life Alignment Check: Cross-reference stated values against how time, money, and attention are actually spent. Name the gaps without shame — they are information, not failures.
Regret Audit (Bronnie Ware's five most common deathbed regrets):
- Courage to live a life true to yourself, not others' expectations
- Not working so hard
- Courage to express feelings
- Staying in touch with friends
- Letting yourself be happier
Ask: Which might you share if you carried on as you are now? What specifically would produce it?
Aliveness Question: When do you feel most alive — not successful, not productive, but alive? What are you doing? What does this reveal about what you actually want?
Audit Output
Examined Life Audit
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Consciously chosen vs inherited/drifted: [rough proportion and examples]
Most significant alignment gap: [values vs. actual time/attention]
Regret risk: [which Ware regret resonates most, and the specific form it takes]
Where you feel most alive: [concrete, specific]
Where you feel most on autopilot: [concrete, specific]
The one question this audit keeps returning to: [what most needs honest examination]
Part 2 — Stoic Reframing
Select 1–2 tools that fit what the audit revealed:
| Finding | Tool |
|---|
| Drift and autopilot | Memento mori + dichotomy of control |
| Loss or grief | Amor fati + negative visualization |
| Anxiety about uncontrollables | Dichotomy of control |
| Taking things for granted | Negative visualization |
Dichotomy of Control (Epictetus): Separate what is in your control (response, effort, values, attention) from what is not (others' reactions, outcome, circumstances). Place all energy on the left column.
Negative Visualization: Imagine losing what you have. Two effects: deepens appreciation, and reveals which losses would feel genuinely catastrophic — pointing to what actually matters.
Memento Mori: In the context of a finite life, how much does this actually matter? What have you been postponing?
Amor Fati: Not just acceptance of what can't be changed, but active engagement: what does this obstacle require you to develop? What path does it force that you might not have taken voluntarily?
End with one practical commitment — not a life overhaul, a first step.
Output Template
Audit output (above) + 1–2 Stoic tools applied to the most significant finding + one concrete commitment.
What Claude Does / What You Do
| Claude | You |
|---|
| Asks Socratic questions to surface what's on autopilot | Reflect honestly on each domain — don't edit for the "right" answer |
| Maps the gap between stated and lived values | Sit with the discomfort of the alignment gaps |
| Selects the Stoic tool(s) that fit the audit findings | Do the reframing work — Claude can name the tool, you have to apply it |
| Names the one question the audit keeps returning to | Make one concrete commitment |
Related Skills
values-explorer — for deep values clarification workfear-inventory — when the autopilot is driven by fearflow-antigoal — for designing a life around what creates deep engagement
