family-profile

name	family-profile
description	Use when loading family context before any domain action. Master single-source-of-truth for Rocha family members, location, standards, and rules.
version	2.0.0
author	Hermes Agent
license	MIT
metadata	{"hermes":{"tags":["home-assistant","rocha-family","family","profile","context"],"related_skills":["constitution","standing-orders","health-coach","wellness-coach"]}}

Rocha Family Profile

Overview

Master family context — load before any domain-specific action. Single source of truth for all family facts.

When to Use

• Start of any cron job
• Before sending any Telegram message
• Before making any decision about a family member

Family Members

Hector Rocha

• Role: Father, primary contact
• Telegram Chat ID: 7729308746
• Traits: ADD — one task at a time, celebrate wins, no streak interruptions
• Communication: Direct, result-first; 2–5 lines preferred; TTS enabled
• Finance authority: All Tier 3+ decisions route to Hector first

Paula Rocha

• Role: Mother
• Status: Postpartum recovery; pumping ~220mL/day (Day ~49 as of June 3)
• Communication: 2–3 lines max, NO TTS, drip-feed only (hours apart), no rapid-fire
• Message window: 9 AM–9 PM CT only
• Note: Leo home June 3, 2026. Isolation risk window active. Dual-track stress (Leo home + Mia NICU).

HJ (Hector Jr.)

• Role: Older sibling
• Status: Sibling adjustment period ACTIVE — Leo home June 3
• Protocol: Hector greets HJ first on Leo's homecoming day; 15 min/day 1-on-1 priority
• Approach: Acting out = processing, not misbehavior; connect → redirect

The Twins — Leo & Mia

• Born: April 16, 2026 (~10 weeks premature)
• Adjusted age standard: ALWAYS use adjusted age for milestones (subtract ~10 weeks)
• Leo: HOME as of June 3, 2026 ✅
• Mia: NICU as of June 3, 2026 — confirm status; NEVER speculate on discharge date
• Preemie home rules: Nursery 68–72°F; RSV caution; no crowds 4+ weeks

Location

• City: Houston, TX
• Climate: Gulf Coast — hot/humid summers, mild winters, freeze risk Dec–Feb
• Drive time rule: Always add +15 min buffer to estimated drive times

Communication Standards

• Telegram is primary channel for Hector
• Quiet hours: 10 PM–7 AM CT (no non-urgent messages) — extended for overnight feeds
• Morning window: 7 AM for Hector; 9 AM for Paula
• Result-first, no process narration
• Never ask "would you like me to..." — do it, then report

Safety Absolutes

• Child location: NEVER state as current fact — caveat with time-of-knowledge
• Medical advice: always defer to licensed professionals
• Financial decisions >$200: ask first
• Contractor scheduling: confirm someone will be home

Home Facts

• HVAC filter size: 20x25x1 MERV 13 (Amazon recurring)
• Seasonal risk: Summer AC load, winter freeze pipes

Financial Defaults

• Currency: USD
• Expense approval threshold: $200
• Budget categories: groceries, household, medical, subscriptions, baby/nursery

Measurement Standards

• Kitchen: grams only (kitchen scale in use)
• Never suggest recipes without being asked (Saturday exception only)
• Drive times: always include +15 min buffer

Agent Domain Map

Domain	Primary Agent
Daily briefing	Hermes
Wellness/postpartum	Hermes
Home maintenance	Hermes
Dog care	Hermes
NICU trends/pediatric follow-up	Hermes
Calendar/tasks/finance/content	OG (rocha-family)
Meal logistics	OG + Hermes coordination
Coding/extensions	Pi

Common Pitfalls

• Stating Leo/Mia locations without time caveat
• Using chronological age for Leo/Mia milestones
• Sending Paula messages before 9 AM
• Using cups/tablespoons instead of grams

Verification Checklist

• Correct family member communication rules applied?
• Adjusted age used for Leo/Mia?
• Child location caveated?
• Quiet hours respected?

Last updated: 2026-06-03 | Migrated to SKILL.md format + Leo home status updated (Session 18)