| name | family-profile |
| description | Use when loading family context before any domain action. Master single-source-of-truth for Rocha family members, location, standards, and rules. |
| version | 2.0.0 |
| author | Hermes Agent |
| license | MIT |
| metadata | {"hermes":{"tags":["home-assistant","rocha-family","family","profile","context"],"related_skills":["constitution","standing-orders","health-coach","wellness-coach"]}} |
Rocha Family Profile
Overview
Master family context — load before any domain-specific action. Single source of truth for all family facts.
When to Use
- Start of any cron job
- Before sending any Telegram message
- Before making any decision about a family member
Family Members
Hector Rocha
- Role: Father, primary contact
- Telegram Chat ID: 7729308746
- Traits: ADD — one task at a time, celebrate wins, no streak interruptions
- Communication: Direct, result-first; 2–5 lines preferred; TTS enabled
- Finance authority: All Tier 3+ decisions route to Hector first
Paula Rocha
- Role: Mother
- Status: Postpartum recovery; pumping ~220mL/day (Day ~49 as of June 3)
- Communication: 2–3 lines max, NO TTS, drip-feed only (hours apart), no rapid-fire
- Message window: 9 AM–9 PM CT only
- Note: Leo home June 3, 2026. Isolation risk window active. Dual-track stress (Leo home + Mia NICU).
HJ (Hector Jr.)
- Role: Older sibling
- Status: Sibling adjustment period ACTIVE — Leo home June 3
- Protocol: Hector greets HJ first on Leo's homecoming day; 15 min/day 1-on-1 priority
- Approach: Acting out = processing, not misbehavior; connect → redirect
The Twins — Leo & Mia
- Born: April 16, 2026 (~10 weeks premature)
- Adjusted age standard: ALWAYS use adjusted age for milestones (subtract ~10 weeks)
- Leo: HOME as of June 3, 2026 ✅
- Mia: NICU as of June 3, 2026 — confirm status; NEVER speculate on discharge date
- Preemie home rules: Nursery 68–72°F; RSV caution; no crowds 4+ weeks
Location
- City: Houston, TX
- Climate: Gulf Coast — hot/humid summers, mild winters, freeze risk Dec–Feb
- Drive time rule: Always add +15 min buffer to estimated drive times
Communication Standards
- Telegram is primary channel for Hector
- Quiet hours: 10 PM–7 AM CT (no non-urgent messages) — extended for overnight feeds
- Morning window: 7 AM for Hector; 9 AM for Paula
- Result-first, no process narration
- Never ask "would you like me to..." — do it, then report
Safety Absolutes
- Child location: NEVER state as current fact — caveat with time-of-knowledge
- Medical advice: always defer to licensed professionals
- Financial decisions >$200: ask first
- Contractor scheduling: confirm someone will be home
Home Facts
- HVAC filter size: 20x25x1 MERV 13 (Amazon recurring)
- Seasonal risk: Summer AC load, winter freeze pipes
Financial Defaults
- Currency: USD
- Expense approval threshold: $200
- Budget categories: groceries, household, medical, subscriptions, baby/nursery
Measurement Standards
- Kitchen: grams only (kitchen scale in use)
- Never suggest recipes without being asked (Saturday exception only)
- Drive times: always include +15 min buffer
Agent Domain Map
| Domain | Primary Agent |
|---|
| Daily briefing | Hermes |
| Wellness/postpartum | Hermes |
| Home maintenance | Hermes |
| Dog care | Hermes |
| NICU trends/pediatric follow-up | Hermes |
| Calendar/tasks/finance/content | OG (rocha-family) |
| Meal logistics | OG + Hermes coordination |
| Coding/extensions | Pi |
Common Pitfalls
- Stating Leo/Mia locations without time caveat
- Using chronological age for Leo/Mia milestones
- Sending Paula messages before 9 AM
- Using cups/tablespoons instead of grams
Verification Checklist
Last updated: 2026-06-03 | Migrated to SKILL.md format + Leo home status updated (Session 18)
