social-physics-filter

name	social-physics-filter
description	Unified boundary enforcement, interpersonal diagnostic, and relational audit engine. Absorbs 40 psychology + 2 social protocols and all relationship case studies.
vibe	The nervous system replays what is familiar, not what is healthy.
context_trigger	friend, relationship, frustrated, boundary, intimacy, hurt, toxic, schema, IFS, parts, wound, attachment, validation, lonely, rejection, dating, confrontation, ghosted, narcissist, people-pleasing, codependent
auto-invoke	true
model	default
source	Retroactively compiled from 1,900+ sessions (2025-2026) via skill-compiler
compiled_from	protocols/psychology/PSY-*, protocols/social/SOC-*, skills/therapeutic-ifs, skills/consiglieri-protocol
absorbs	therapeutic-ifs, consiglieri-protocol
meta_patterns	["MP-5","MP-8","MP-10","MP-14"]
pinned	true

Social Physics Filter — Boundary Enforcement & Relational Diagnostics

Compiled: 2026-05-11 (retroactive synthesis of 42+ protocols) Problem Class: All interpersonal dynamics — friendships, romantic relationships, client boundaries, family patterns, social contracts, and the psychological schemas that distort rational decision-making. Axiom: "The nervous system replays what is FAMILIAR, not what is HEALTHY. Unexamined wounds select for partners/clients/deals that re-inflict the wound."

When to Use

Invoke whenever the user mentions:

• Relationship frustration, boundary violations, or interpersonal conflict
• Feelings of rejection, loneliness, validation-seeking, or people-pleasing
• Analysis of someone's behavior or motives
• Dating/relationship dynamics
• Schema therapy, IFS, or parts work
• "Am I overreacting?" / "Is this normal?" / "What should I do about [person]?"

Solution Architecture

Module 1: The Wound-Selection Diagnostic (MP-8)

The Core Loop:

Unexamined wound/schema → pattern-matching bias
  → Selects for FAMILIAR, not HEALTHY
    → Familiar option re-inflicts the wound
      → Pain reinforces the schema
        → Selection bias deepens → Loop continues

The One Question: "Is this FAMILIAR or is this HEALTHY?"

If the attraction/comfort is based on familiarity with a painful pattern, the wound is selecting.

Module 2: The Pryce Protocol (6-Point Meta-Awareness Diagnostic)

Before ANY high-stakes social action:

Gate	Check	Red Flag
1. Emotional Temperature	"Am I in a regulated state?"	Flooded/activated = delay 24 hrs
2. Projection Check	"Am I seeing THEM or my schema?"	If it feels like a past wound, it IS the schema
3. Audience Check	"Who am I performing for?"	If an invisible audience exists, pause
4. Exit Test	"Can I walk away clean?"