| name | playbook-networking |
| description | Use when designing or improving a Networking operating playbook with roles, ordered actions, controls and measures. Use platform skills for channel plans and strategy skills for upstream direction. |
| metadata | {"portable":true,"compatible_with":["claude-code","codex"]} |
Networking and Referral Playbook
Use When
- Build or improve a repeatable Networking workflow for a client or delivery team.
- Turn an approved objective into roles, controls, handoffs and measurable actions.
Do Not Use When
- The task is a single-channel presence plan; use the closest
platform-* skill.
- The task is upstream positioning or channel choice; use the closest
strategy-* skill.
Required Inputs
| Artefact | Source/provider | Required? | If absent |
|---|
| Objective, audience and success measure | Approved client brief or accountable owner | Yes | Stop and request the missing decision |
| Current workflow, assets and performance evidence | Team records, platform exports or supplied artefacts | Conditional | Label the baseline unassessed and use a minimum viable workflow |
| Roles, budget, timing and approval limits | Delivery owner | Yes for execution | Produce a draft only; do not schedule, spend or publish |
Capability and Permission Boundaries
Read supplied artefacts and search relevant evidence. Treat review, audit and planning as read-only. Editing the requested draft is allowed; publishing, messaging, production changes, personal-data processing, spending, destructive actions and certification claims require explicit authority. Use network access only for authorised verification.
Degraded Mode
If accounts, files, network, rendering or current evidence are unavailable, return the narrowest useful qualified Networking playbook plus an evidence-gap list. Mark each unavailable check not assessed; never convert it into a pass.
Decision Rules
| Condition | Action | Failure or risk avoided |
|---|
| A contact has no mutual relevance or permission for follow-up | Do not add them to a sequence | Transactional spam disguised as networking |
| Inputs and authority are complete | Produce an execution-ready playbook | Unowned actions and hidden assumptions |
| Evidence or tooling is incomplete | Produce the narrowest qualified draft and a gap list | Treating an unassessed check as passed |
| Action publishes, spends, contacts people or changes production state | Require explicit approval before action | Unauthorised external impact |
Workflow
- Confirm the consumer, objective, market, decision owner and permission boundary; stop if the objective or owner is missing.
- Inspect supplied evidence and verify volatile claims; record missing inputs rather than filling them with assumptions.
- Apply the decision rules, preserve useful existing material and draft the Networking playbook.
- Test each action against platform, privacy, safeguarding, brand and approval constraints; stop and escalate a blocking risk.
- Run the quality and anti-slop gates. If a check fails, correct the draft and rerun it before handoff.
Outputs
| Artefact | Consumer | Acceptance condition |
|---|
| Networking playbook | Client owner and delivery team | Uses named inputs, assigns actions, states decisions and contains no unverified specifics |
| Assumption and gap register | Approver or next workflow | Every missing source, unassessed check and required approval has an owner or next action |
Evidence Produced
| Evidence | Format | Acceptance condition |
|---|
| Decision and verification record | Inline table or appendix | Each material choice traces to an input, source or labelled assumption |
| Release-gate result | Completed checklist | No blocking policy, factual, permission or anti-slop finding remains |
Quality Standards
Use British English and the specified market context. Recommendations must be executable with the stated capacity, current claims must be verified or qualified, and acceptance conditions must be observable. A worked example must use a labelled scenario, not fabricated client evidence.
Anti-Patterns
- Inventing a client fact, benchmark, budget or approval. Fix: cite the source or label the assumption and its effect.
- Copying one channel or client pattern unchanged. Fix: tie each choice to the named audience, objective and evidence.
- Stating volatile platform or legal details from memory. Fix: verify the current official source or omit the claim.
- Treating an inaccessible account, file or metric as healthy. Fix: mark it
not assessed and bound the conclusion.
- Publishing, spending, messaging or changing production state from planning authority. Fix: obtain explicit action authority.
- Delivering actions without owner, timing or acceptance. Fix: assign all three or return the item as an unresolved gap.
References
Required Input
Before generating any deliverable, ask for:
- Client business name
- Industry / sector
- Country or city (default: Uganda / East Africa)
- Primary goal (new client acquisition, referral activation, community presence, or all three)
- Current networking activity (if any)
- Budget and time available per week for networking activity
Part 1 — Why Networking First
In the East African market — and for independent professional service businesses globally — word-of-mouth is the single most effective and lowest-cost marketing method available.
"A satisfied customer tells three people about a positive experience over one month. An unhappy customer tells seven people about a bad experience within one week." — Edwards, Edwards and Douglas (1991)
Networking is the deliberate, systematic management of the relationships that generate word-of-mouth.
The Time-Money Marketing Continuum (Edwards et al., 1991):
- High time / low money: Networking, speaking, referral cultivation, content creation
- Low time / high money: Paid advertising, direct mail, sponsored placement
New businesses and independent practitioners should start at the high-time/low-money end. Migrate toward paid channels only when revenue allows.
Part 2 — Event Networking: 14 Rules
(Adapted from Edwards, Edwards and Douglas, 1991)
- Set specific goals before each event — e.g., "I will have three substantive conversations and leave with two follow-up commitments."
- Arrive early — groups have not yet formed; it is easier to meet people one-to-one.
- Prepare and practise a clear 30-second answer to "What do you do?" (see USP Pitch in
biz-dev-positioning).
- Listen more than you talk — ask questions that draw the other person out.
- Focus first on how you can help others — not on selling yourself.
- Write a note on the back of every business card immediately after the conversation — what was discussed, what you promised to do.
- Follow up within 24–48 hours. Not "we should have coffee sometime" but "I'll call you on Thursday."
- Build a follow-up system — a spreadsheet or CRM with contact date, next action, and deadline.
- Join organisations actively — volunteer for committees, not just attend as a passive member.
- Refer others freely and specifically — reciprocity is the currency of networking.
- Show up consistently — be known as someone who is always there, not someone who appears occasionally.
- Choose organisations strategically — attend where your best clients and best referrers already are.
- Do not hard-sell at networking events — the sale happens in the follow-up, not at the event.
- Create your own group when existing options are inadequate (see Part 4).
Part 3 — Referral Activation: Three Strategies
Strategy 1 — Active Solicitation from Existing Clients
Do not wait for referrals. Ask for them explicitly and specifically.
Script:
"I'm glad the work has been useful. I'm looking to work with more businesses like yours — specifically [describe the ideal client]. Do you know one or two people I should be speaking to?"
Rules:
- Ask at the peak of client satisfaction — immediately after a successful delivery, not at renewal time
- Be specific about who you are looking for — "anyone" produces nothing; a description produces names
- Follow up the referral immediately and report back to the referrer ("I spoke to James — thank you for the introduction")
- Express genuine gratitude — a handwritten note or a small gift is remembered
Strategy 2 — Gatekeeper Cultivation
Gatekeepers are not clients; they are the people who connect you to clients — lawyers, accountants, architects, event organisers, trade association officers, journalists.
Steps:
- List the five professional categories most likely to encounter your ideal client before you do
- Identify 2–3 named individuals in each category
- Make first contact through introduction or shared event — not a cold pitch
- Build the relationship with value first: refer work to them, share useful information, invite them to relevant events
- When the relationship is established, explain what you do and for whom — and ask if they know anyone who fits that description
Strategy 3 — Reference Letters and Endorsements
A written reference from a respected client or partner functions as a referral that works without the referrer being present.
What a useful reference letter contains:
- Who the client is and what context they know you in
- The specific problem you solved
- The specific outcome you delivered (with numbers if possible)
- A direct statement that they would recommend you
- Permission to use it in proposals and on your website
Collection process: Ask for a reference letter within 2 weeks of completing a successful project. Provide a brief template to make it easy. Never wait 6 months — the experience will have faded.
Part 4 — Creating a Referral Group: 7 Steps
(Adapted from Edwards, Edwards and Douglas, 1991)
A referral group is a small, structured gathering of non-competing professionals who refer business to each other systematically.
- Define the niche: What sector or client type will this group serve? Be specific.
- Identify 8–12 founding members: Each should bring a complementary (not competing) service. Example: social media consultancy, accountancy firm, legal practice, web design studio, print/branding supplier, business coach.
- Set a fixed, recurring meeting time: Monthly is the minimum; fortnightly is optimal. Same day, same location.
- Create a referral-sharing structure: At each meeting, each member describes their ideal client for the month and reports on referrals given and received.
- Keep meetings focused and short: 90 minutes maximum. Assign a facilitator.
- Rotate hosting duties: Distributes the commitment and builds ownership.
- Track referrals generated: Record the source, the recipient, and the outcome. Quantify the value. This keeps members accountable and demonstrates the ROI of participation.
Part 5 — The Follow-Up System
"Follow-up is 80% of networking. Most people follow up zero times. One follow-up puts you in the top 20%. Two follow-ups puts you in the top 5%." — Pinskey (1997)
Minimum follow-up system:
| Contact Type | Follow-Up Action | Timing |
|---|
| Event meeting | Personalised message referencing the conversation | Within 24 hours |
| Referral received | Acknowledgement to the referrer; introduction message to the lead | Within 48 hours |
| Proposal sent | One follow-up call | 5–7 business days after sending |
| Past client, inactive | Check-in message with relevant news or resource | Every 90 days |
| Referrer (gatekeeper) | Value touch — article, invitation, relevant introduction | Monthly |
Tools: A simple spreadsheet works for under 100 contacts. Any CRM (Hubspot Free, Notion database, Google Sheets) works for more.
Part 6 — Deliverables This Skill Can Generate
- Networking action plan — target organisations, events, and individuals for the next 90 days
- 30-second USP pitch — prepared answer to "what do you do?" (links to
biz-dev-positioning)
- Referral activation script — exact words to use when asking existing clients for referrals
- Gatekeeper target list — 10–15 named referral sources with cultivation plan
- Referral group design document — founding member profile, meeting structure, referral tracking log
- Follow-up schedule — tailored to contact type, with message templates
Quality Criteria
Good output from this skill:
- The networking action plan names specific organisations and events — not generic "networking events"
- The 30-second pitch is specific, benefit-led, and memorable — not a job title
- Referral scripts are direct and comfortable to say aloud — not awkward or pressuring
- The gatekeeper list identifies professionals in roles that actually precede the client's buying decision
- The referral group design includes a tracking mechanism — not just a description of who attends
- All follow-up timings are specific (24 hours, 48 hours) not vague ("soon")
- Content is adapted to the Ugandan/East African relationship-first business culture
References
- Edwards, P., Edwards, S. and Douglas, L.C. (1991) Getting Business to Come to You. Los Angeles: Tarcher.
- Pinskey, R. (1997) 101 Ways to Promote Yourself. New York: Avon Books.